Why External Validation is the Wrong Standard

When I was about three years old, my father taught me how to swim. He brought me into the pool, had me hold onto the edge in the shallow end, and then walked about three feet away. "Ok, Jennie!" he [...]

By |2021-12-01T23:50:20-08:00July 10th, 2017|Categories: emotional literacy|Tags: , , , |Comments Off on Why External Validation is the Wrong Standard

7 Ways to Improve Your Body Image That Aren’t Crash-Dieting

About two years ago, I wrote an unassuming little blog post that I called “We’re All in This Together”.  It wasn’t flashy, didn’t feature a clickbait title, and fell off my website’s homepage without much ado – but I think [...]

13 Reasons Why It Can Get Better

The latest Netflix series generating a lot of buzz is 13 Reasons Why.  But unlike Orange is the New Black and House Of Cards, the buzz mostly isn’t all that favorable.  Aside from the pretty scathing review in the New [...]

5 Counterintuitive Things About Self-Criticism

There are many things you don’t know about self-criticism and it’s because you are very stupid.  You should know these things - they’re really obvious.  I bet the guy in the office next to you knows these things… Phil, with [...]

By |2017-09-30T10:06:27-07:00April 11th, 2017|Categories: self-compassion and self-care|Tags: , , , |Comments Off on 5 Counterintuitive Things About Self-Criticism

Ghosting is Not About You!

In the past few years, a new phenomenon has emerged in dating.  Actually, it’s a very old phenomenon, but it has a shiny new name and is amplified by the advent of dating apps and other technology.  It’s called ghosting. [...]

By |2017-05-05T23:50:27-07:00April 7th, 2017|Categories: assertiveness, dating and relationships, self-compassion and self-care|Tags: , , , , |Comments Off on Ghosting is Not About You!

I went on an asexuality podcast!

Last week, I had the privilege of joining Dr. Wendy O'Connor and Jenni Wilson as the guest on their podcast: The Relationship Show.  I originally met Jenni through her work for LA-CAMFT, a professional organization for Los Angeles based therapists.  She coordinates [...]

By |2017-05-12T22:46:28-07:00March 31st, 2017|Categories: gender sexual and relationship minorities|Tags: , , , , , , |Comments Off on I went on an asexuality podcast!

On Burnout: You’re Not a Lazy Person Who Hates Work

Over a year ago, I wrote a series of articles about recognizing symptoms of workplace burnout and how you can manage that with self-care. I described that burnout often looks like depression: you have trouble getting out of bed, you don’t enjoy [...]

By |2017-09-30T10:06:55-07:00March 23rd, 2017|Categories: self-compassion and self-care, work life balance|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |Comments Off on On Burnout: You’re Not a Lazy Person Who Hates Work
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