How to know if you’re cheating on your partner

I wrote an article a few years ago about things that everyone can learn from the kink community.  The rationale is that when people introduce unconventional things into their sex lives, they can’t make the assumptions most of us make [...]

By |2020-08-02T20:48:06-07:00July 30th, 2017|Categories: dating and relationships, gender sexual and relationship minorities|Tags: , , , , , , , |Comments Off on How to know if you’re cheating on your partner

Ado Annie and the Slut-Shaming Fallacy

“I’m just a girl who cain’t say no!” proclaims Ado Annie (prounced Ay-doe Annie), from Rogers and Hammerstein’s 1943 musical Oklahoma! by way of introduction. Poor Ado Annie.  She’s so confused about what’s okay and what isn’t.  Everyone tells her she [...]

By |2017-05-06T02:31:35-07:00September 23rd, 2016|Categories: assertiveness, books movies television etc, dating and relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |Comments Off on Ado Annie and the Slut-Shaming Fallacy

Why Sex is Different Than Broccoli

Sex therapist Marty Klein is an incredibly good speaker. He’s an excellent writer (and you should seriously consider getting your hands on a copy of his book Sexual Intelligence), but his speaking is absolutely unparalleled. That’s why when I was [...]

By |2017-05-30T22:29:08-07:00February 20th, 2016|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: , , , , , , |Comments Off on Why Sex is Different Than Broccoli

Sexual Communication: 3 Things Everyone Can Learn From the Kink Community

From a very young age, we’re told not to talk about sex. We’re provided with handy euphemisms for our body parts and informed of all the scary things that can happen if we have sex without protection, or with a [...]

By |2019-10-21T15:28:18-07:00October 21st, 2015|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: , , , , , , , , |Comments Off on Sexual Communication: 3 Things Everyone Can Learn From the Kink Community
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